CourtSide Clarity:
Our 3-Step Support System for
Self-Representing Dads
Step 1:
Understanding Your Situation
Whether you're navigating a MIAM, applying for a Child Arrangements Order (CAO), dealing with specific issues, false allegations, or facing a Prohibited Steps Order — it’s vital to understand what’s happening, what’s realistic, and what your next move should be.
In this first step, we’ll:
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Break down your current position in the family court process
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Clarify terms like MIAM, CAO, SIO, PSO, and what they mean for you
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Discuss any allegations or safeguarding concerns you're facing — and how to respond effectively
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Identify what’s realistically possible based on your circumstances
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Begin focusing on what’s best for your child, not just what’s available in theory
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You’ll leave this session with clarity, confidence, and a clear outline of your next steps — whether you’re preparing for court, responding to accusations, or trying to restore contact.
Step 2:
Navigating the Family Court
​Once you understand where you stand, the next step is knowing how to move through the system — confidently and correctly.
In Step 2, I’ll guide you through the practical side of the family court process, including:
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Understanding and preparing for your MIAM (Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting)
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Support with completing key court forms like the C100, C1A, or C2
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Guidance on writing position statements that present your case clearly and calmly
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Help structuring evidence statements that support your application without overwhelming the court
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Preparing for and responding to CAFCASS involvement, safeguarding letters, and interviews
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Understanding court directions, timelines, and what each hearing means (FHDRA, DRA, etc.)​
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We’ll work together to make sure you’re well-organized, realistic, and ready — not just emotionally, but on paper too.
Step 3:
After the Order — What Now?
The final order isn’t always the final word. Whether things are working smoothly or problems have come up, knowing what you can do next — and when to act — is crucial.
In Step 3, we focus on helping you navigate life after the court’s decision, including:
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Understanding the details of your final order — what it requires and what it protects
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What to do if the other parent isn’t sticking to the order (enforcement options)
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When and how to ask the court to vary (change) the order, especially if circumstances have changed
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Helping you identify early warning signs of conflict or potential breaches — and how to address them calmly
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Guidance on whether you need to file a C79 (enforcement) or C100 (variation)
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How to stay child-focused while protecting your own rights and contact​
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You’ll come away with a plan for maintaining stability, responding to disputes, and knowing exactly when to stand your ground — and how to do it properly.